Once you've decided to embark on a bike trip, the next questions is: tandem or solo? There are pros & cons to both. Tandems allow you to experience the ride together & share what you're seeing along the way. When you're of different riding abilities, as Mike & I are, it equalizes things so you stay together no matter how difficult the terrain. There's no waiting or worrying about losing each other, someone (ME!) breaking down at the side of the road, etc. On the flip side, riding a tandem means that the person in back (ME!) has to relinquish all control to the person in front. You have to stop & start at the same time & constantly communicate the next move. Riding solo means each person goes at their own pace & is in control (there's that word again!) of their own riding.
Mike & I have limited experience with tandem bikes. When we were in England, we stopped one night in a little town & asked someone if we could camp in their yard (I can't believe we did that!). The couple was so sweet and insisted we stay in their guest room. They even cooked us dinner! The wife had multiple sclerosis & her husband would ride her around town on a one-speed tandem bike. The next morning, they let Mike & I try it out; I remember laughing as we wobbled down their driveway. Years later, we bought an inexpensive tandem at Costco but rarely rode it. Mike & our younger daughter, Virginia, did the Ensenada/Rosarito Beach bike ride a few times & had a blast. Mike claims he did all the peddling which Virginia vehemently denies. That tandem bit the dust when one of our daughters (I promised her I wouldn't name names!) mistook the accelerator for the brake pedal & drove the Lexus through the garage door. The tandem, & the Lexus, were never the same again!
Mike did a lot of research on tandem bikes & found a shop about 40 miles from our house, Newbury Bike Shop, that specializes in tandems. We went out one Sunday, looked at the bikes & spent a long time talking with the owner about tandems, what he would recommend, etc. It was exciting to imagine riding down the coast on a tandem bike, Mike & I sharing every moment of the ride together. A decent tandem is expensive though, probably between $3,000 & $5,000, so we decided not to rush into a purchase. We kept talking about it & Mike became convinced that a tandem was the way to go. I wasn't so sure so we decided to do a road test. We returned to Newbury Bike Shop where the owner pulled down a beautiful tandem & took about 15 minutes getting it ready for us: adjusting the seat heights, putting on the right pedals, etc. He saw us off & told us to take as long as we wanted. Not 5 minutes later, we were back at the shop - we didn't even make it out of the parking lot. It took about 2 minutes for both of us to realize that riding a tandem was a REALLY BAD idea: I was telling Mike to watch where he was going; he was telling me not to shift my weight so much; & we were both feeling irritable....the Asmi California Coastal Ride was in danger of turning into the Levanas Divorce Ride! By the time we got home, we were speaking to each other again & feeling relieved that a big decision had been made: SOLO it was!